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So the BIG question from everyone has been "How are you adjusting to 2 kids?" And, I believe that those who have asked me this quesion, that have more than one, ask this question with a little giggle in their voice ;O) So here is an explanation of my morning today, and this will sum up 1 vs. 2.
Last week we were all sick (except the baby thank goodness), so me, Isa and Eva were stuck in the house 24-7 Monday-Friday, and by Friday I thought Chris was going to have to admit me to the psychiatric ward up at the hospital. Which might have been a nice break to have people bring me food and get a full nights rest (LOL)!!
A couple of weeks ago I had ordered a double stroller and it arrived last Thursday, you honestly would have thought I won the lottery when this thing arrived, the thought of being outside made me gleam! So, today I attempted our first walk with the gals. Now, last summer when I took walks with Isa everyday this is how it would go. Keep in mind she was 17 months old, and still not walking. So we would eat breakfast, I would carry her upstairs and change her diaper, get her dressed, quickly wipe up her face, carry her down to the stroller, and well......we would take a nice happy walk. Today, however, it didn't run quite like that. Isabella woke up at the same time that I was feeding Eva, so she is in her bedroom yealling "Hello???" and I am trying to balance holding the baby, her blanket and pacifier, and holding the bottle between my chin and the babies mouth as I walk to Isabella's room. I have to drag her out of bed as she is throwing a tantrum because she wants me to carry her downstairs (somehow she has forgotten since the baby has arrived that her legs do in fact work.) I get her breakfast and once again...a tantrum because I want her to sit in her booster chair rather than stand in dad's chair and spill her breakfast everywhere. Then it's time to get her changed for the day (that again is another tanrum, this independence at age 2 thing is killing me!!) Oh, and wait, I guess I shouldn't go on a walk in my PJ's, so I hurry and run and change my clothes....oh, and I haven't found time to use the bathroom, I hurry and do that as Isabella is standing in the doorway repeating over and over "Wash my hands, wash my hands, wash my hands"! We finally get downstairs and I get Eva put in her carseat, I get Isa's shoes on, and Isabella starts throwing a tanrum because she wants some bubble gum. I throw in the towel and go outside to put the baby in the stroller, and leave Isa inside just to enjoy 20 seconds of silence. I come back in and get Isabella and bring her out to the stroller, we get buckled in and then I smell this Horrible awful smell....yes, the baby has pooped. So, I then unbuckle Isabella, which again triggers a tantrum. I take the carseat back insdide and drag Isabella back in. As I go upstairs to change Eva, Isabella is downstairs kicking the wall and screaming because she wants to go outside. I bring the baby back down, get her back in the carseat, drag both kids out to the stroller, buckle up again....and an hour and a half later we finally are leaving the house to take a walk. So, to sum up how I am adjusting to 2......it's wonderful chaos! Wait is that an oxy moron?
19 comments:
You have just made me decide that I'm not having my second kicked until Bella is 12 and can take care of herself and baby sit the new baby! Good luck!
It's a good thing your girls are so cute...it's probably makes it easier to forgive her :)
Oh the things I have to look forward to :)
Yes, I am smiling. The joys of two. You just wait. The stories will get better and better and better...and better....
"Pick your battles" is my new motto! :)
I love it!! Atleast you ended up going on your walk, I think I would have just quit and stayed home. I am having those kind of tantrums at my house as well, except they are from my 4 1/2 yr old. I am really greatful we are DONE!!!
That pretty much sums it up. How fun. Come for a walk to my house next time!
I remember the about the first 3 or months after having Gracie (and Brooklyn was 3 1/2) Sean and I would look at each other and say, "what have we done?" Those first couple of months of rough- but then you quickly get into the swing and it gets better. Hang in there!! I so remember what you are going through!
Sounds just about right to me.
It gets better, then worse, then better again...and so on.
But it's soooo much fun!
it gets better! I promise!
Kace was 4 when I had Ty so he was actually the big helper! Hopefully someday both their legs will work in the morning!
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Oh I remember those days, but honestly I would do three over two little ones any day.
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Oh my goodness, it is just how I envision it being ;) Life is far too simple with one child I guess. I just know I will be experiencing just what you are describing. I am afraid we already have the battle about what chair she needs to sit in for meals. Of couse I want her in the high chair so I can avoid a huge mess, but she demands and whines to sit like a "big girl." Oh this stage is wonderful!! Your post made me giggle because the only other thing to do is to cry. I hope I can keep my sense of humor when I am there. Hang in there, I hear it gets better.
A classic example of one v. two. I feel like this is the epitomy of more than one child. I'm not sure it gets smoother or if you just get used to controlled chaos!:) You are a great mom and those gals are lucky to have you!
haha so fun to read- you summed up what I've heard pretty much all my friends say about having 2;)!! Wonderful chaos- I love it!
Just wait until she's potty trained, then exactly 4 minutes away from the house she starts screaming she has to go potty NOW!
I honestly feel for you... it takes us at least 30 minutes to get out of the house - and I still forget things! Its been almost 15 months since #2 came along!
Just remember to ask for help when things get crazy... make someone take one of them for even a 30 minute saity check... that will work wonders...
I have also started letting Grace just wear her clothes backwards - its so much easier than fighting her... oh the joys of independant 2 year old girls!
Hey Melissa...I have been out of the blogging world for a bit...
Congraulations on your BEAUTIFUL baby. What a sweet little family you have.
I do have to say I laughed out loud only because I know and it is comic relief for me. Here I am with 3 and one more coming...I keep asking myself...what was I thinking....but you have to have those moments to appreciate the calm, sweet little things. And even the crazy things. I love it. Also I am the mother that I said I wouldn't be. Sometimes (a lot lately) my kids look a little orphaned. And sometime ( a lot lately I look orphaned too)
Also I love you SIL skill with the camera. She is very talented.
ps I want to bwe invited to your blog when you go private...I have left blogging world for a bit because I have been debating the same thing.
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I guess this is what I have to look forward too...can't wait!!!
Things like that are why I am willing to pay extra to go somewhere with a drive-thru! When is Lee's going to get a drive up grocery shopping window?
I remember!!! It does get better. Don't worry 17 months after Faye and we still can't get out of the house before 10:00 am. Enjoy them, they grow up so fast. My baby (Alan) will be 5 @ the end of this year. Where does time go? Soon you'll be runing after them. I know it can get crazy, hang in there. Don't forget to invite me to you'r blog. gely_lt@yahoo.com
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